WHEN WILL SHE MARRY?

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Saeed Kamalu Bako

Where is she going?
Time is quite fast and she is becoming older by the day.

Religion and tradition have inclined their dictates on her.

She is now 20+ but still  flirting with them, knowing that they are "Yan amore".

When will she fulfil the obligation designed on her by both religion and culture.

Who will then propose, since she has eliminate focus?

But the question that remain vague is when is she going to settle down?

Her dream seems uncertain.

Having a handsome and God fearing husband, living in a good and mighty mansion, surrounded by little adorable kids, living a happier and worth siting example life...

But can't she see that she is now turning to sugar Mummy?

What of the dream of loving to be called with all the "honey like" names?

At last, she preached to herself, and the last was to be good.
Let her have him, let the love of her life come to her before it becomes too late.
Let her be herself, so as to actualize her dreams.
Fulfil the obligation of the society and live a happier life...

#kamsonality


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